Dear CCB raders; He Doesn’t Like Sex….wat Do I Do ?

I am a 31 year old married woman wit a son less than a year,my marriage is almost 2 years. I noticed my husband don’t really like making love from the 1st week of our marriage,he responded to my complaints by saying he’s fratigued from d wedding stress.. But it has lingered until now, we barely have sex 2 times in a month, anytime I complain he will laugh and say it’s because am a self employed woman and I have a lot of time to think about sex, so am so tired of complaining and feeling like a slut…but I feel so deprived, am a Christian, I can’t, cheat on him, sometimes I self-service just to get satisfied, but I always feel guilty and dirty afterwards, this is not a topic I can easily walk to anyone to discuss,am really frustrated, Pls I need as many advice and ideas I can get…
pls in God’s name, no insults…. I just need candid advise.. Thanks.